Blaze Blogs: STOP! "Freaking Out"

I feel like I've been so busy freaking out that I've not been in a space of love. I've recently been through a lot and decided to go see my ex whom I considered "the love of my life" - while I was on a trip home to Australia. " Going Home" as Dr Bonnie terms, is vital to growing in a space of love and sometimes our ex's know us better then our family. We got to talk, laugh and get past "past patterns" to understand what's "really" going on. Well, I obviously was still not getting it because I started freaking out at the new man on the block and my mind, in a zillion horrible directions, couldn't quiet get it together until I freaked out. As women, we often call it hormones, alcohol, crazy men and blame it on everything other then taking responsibility and healing ourselves so that we can get to love.. Now here it was, the same pattern holding me back and this time I was going to send it packing. A helpful hint to all you ladies out there- Do NOT get mad or blame or shame men. I took one breath and thought don't get mad- I suddenly realized I was no longer going to shut down my own heart to make a man feel better when he was totally and utterly out of line with where he was coming from. It was okay to be emotional, after all love is about communicating and sharing vulnerabilities. I had done nothing wrong and didn't disrespect him. Some horrible texts poped up from his end and I was hurt but I now accept that my own " freaking out" was pressing him cause I needed to know how he felt, I needed a label, I needed needed needed.. I needed nothing I couldn't give myself and if he didn't want to see me - oh well that speaks volumes. A man who falls in love shows it, so that was utterly a waste of emotions flying about. We had a huge fight via text, to make matters worse. I finally now get it! I was pushing him away and I won't ever come from that place of being needy that screams of desperation. I remembered who I was in the process, which made me more confident. My lesson was not to act on my irrational self  and emotions but to excersise my control- after all the one thing I do have control over is myself. I've decided the best approach for a situation like this is "to bite your tongue" take a step back, talk to a rational friend about how to proceed- and be cool. Otherwise your just pushing him away. Thanks to my new friend and author of "Stop Looking for a Husband", Marina Sbrochi who prompted this blog. 

CHEATING-VILLE!

I've always imagined a website that exposed men who had no balls to be honest but instead turned to lying and cheating cause they where cowards. Finally a website to help them grow balls was here !

Here's an example I found on there which has got 65,000 hits in a week:

http://www.cheaterville.com/?page=cheaters&id=14401

So ladys if you know any cheaters, why not help your fellow lady's out there by publishing your story's, pics and info etc, so that if he decides to pull this on any other women she will find it when she googles his name.

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You are what you eat! Now pay attention to what you eat.

Loving ourselves means looking after our bodies.  So when I woke up feeling hungover and noticed a cigarette packet by my bed I knew I had to make some changes. 

With this loving realisation I had towards my body and soul, that very moment I quit smoking.  I haven't craved a cigarette since, and it’s now been about 12 months.  I gave up smoking and drinking alcohol, and now am committed to looking after my health.  I’m especially careful about what I put into my body - we definitely are what we eat.

Here's a video I did today for an audition for a food and travel show I have had the opportunity to host.  It demonstrates one of my favourite recipes that is so easy to make and is super healthy and nutritious. 

          AUDITION TAPE: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-GNAwuNvYQM&feature=share
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-GNAwuNvYQM&feature=share

For recipe details please email: jacquie.blaze@gmail.com

Blaze: The Greatest Love of All

Whitney Houston was a strong, uniquely talented, beautiful woman who attracted some tragic circumstances in her life.  For all of her success, strength of character and wealth, she wasn’t looking after herself.  She needed to put herself first, love herself more, as so many loved her.   It’s hard to imagine that she felt at times intensely lonely and was in such pain, which she expressed in the lyrics of her songs, but that was also what helped us identify with her and appreciate her passion and honesty.  She found the inner strength to generously pour out her heart and soul.  She gave so much of herself that she forgot to give to her self, which is where love starts.  Yes, she could have done things differently, however she did things the way that she did - that's destiny .. that was her path.  She is very much missed. 


Let this be a lesson to all those whom have ever struggled with any life situation- love is key.
This song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYzlVDlE72w&ob=av3n
Please take the time to watch my trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U
Its helped me learn that the greatest love of all is easy to achieve- that learning to love myself is the greatest love if all!