BLAZE BLOGS: MY CHRONICLE TO LOVE: The law of awakening.

Here are my 7 principals to the law of awakening:
1. Always put me as #1, because if I’m not happy, I’ve got nothing left to give.

2. The people who don't care – need to go their own way.

3. Those who care about me are precious and worth holding onto.

4. Selfish people are not for me.

5. I'm happiest when I'm in love!

6. It's okay to look at past mistakes, cause I won't be making those again.

7. Honesty is the best policy, particularly being honest with self, even if it hurts, as adjustment and change often hurt.

Hope you find the love that you seek!

Check in with me weekly I will be offering some my personal insight on happiness.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at:

(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that "Love is the Key to all life situations..".

Love

Jacquie Blaze

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BLAZE BLOGS: MY CHRONICLE TO LOVE: FIGHTING DEMONS..PART II.

The culprit and Mrs Evil suffered from insecurity and I was not willing to have any part of that. Been there, done that. No thanks. They can deal with that one on their own.

What I've found from fighting my demons is that we all have them. Some more serious and more real than others, as I would find out. This is how I realized that..

At 12pm two nights ago I was driving home after dropping a friend off who was helping me with some work-related stuff. It was supposed to be a quick drop off and then to bed. I was so exhausted after little to no sleep. However, I noticed a young lady sitting at the bus stop looking very sad. The light was red and my car was stopped where I couldn't help but look. I don't like to stare, but the sight of her drew me in.

I noticed she was trying to hold back her tears but in the next moment she completely broke down.

Now, being pretty tired myself I probably should have turned the corner and pulled into my driveway but I instead opened my window to ask if she was okay, and a loud cry.."No"came back, followed by silence. I've had some experience dealing with distressed women, and have been one myself, so I was ready to take this on.

This woman was dealing with her demons and she was not in a rational state of mind. Frightened and confused and new to Los Angeles, she was unable to tell me what happened right away. I invited her to sit in my car in the hope that she would begin to calm down with some company and food, and then with the intention of finding her some assistance, which is what we did.

I found out that her demon was in the form of a cheating and physically abusive husband who did his number in front of her three year old, whom Mrs Devastated had been forced to walk away from, at midnight - without any money and with an irrational mind. She was also devastated by having lost her father two weeks prior.

This really put things in perspective for me. It made me realize how grateful I should be for having such a blessed life. We got acquainted, and by the time we walked out of Ralphs at 1.30 am, we had a plan to go to the police station for some advice.

Things didn’t get easier at the police station, but Mrs Devastated handled everything with such strength and love for herself and her child and even the husband, she ordered his arrest. What a tough decision to make, huh! She without question was able to do it because she reached the point where she was unwilling to put up with anymore. She knew that if she returned it would amount to more abuse. He was out of control. I was proud of her. By 4am when I left, everyone, including the officers, were laughing and in good spirits.

To stand up for yourself says a lot about how you value and love yourself and others. That to me is priceless. So next time someone bullies you or gossips about you - look the devil in the eye and confront the problem head on.

Mrs Devastated and I spoke the following day, and she was home and things had already turned around for the better. Things are looking up and I'm grateful for that.

Check in with me weekly I will be offering some my personal insight on love.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at:

(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that "Love is the Key..".

Love

Jacquie Blaze

CONTACT : loveunraveled@gmail.com

BLAZE BLOGS: MY CHRONICLE TO LOVE: FIGHTING DEMONS.

I woke up to a strange girl sleeping on my sofa. I didn’t like strangers in my home but the friend who was staying with me didn’t seem to care who she brought into my home. That’s cause it wasn’t her home. Was she the culprit in all of this?
This was the morning Ms Evil was first introduced into my life.

It was the morning after the Playboy Mansion Halloween party, three years ago. I found out Ms Evil was sleeping with the man I love, and his namesake. How crazy! I was disgusted. I had my own reasons for feeling insecure and weak at that time so I just shut down and said nothing as I was signaled to shut up .. by the culprit standing behind a girl sitting before me, who was still a stranger. I was made to listen to a horrible story .. in my own home! I was then told I had no business telling the man I was in knee-deep with, what I had heard. Of course I did. He was someone I loved and cared about! Wouldn’t you want to know?

As a result of not listening to my own intuition, I didn’t say anything and communication dropped off. I got depressed, and took on a day job instead of working on my career. Then I started eating .. I felt miserable. I was beginning to open up to a work colleague, when Ms Evil moved in across the street and recruited him. I felt tormented and overwhelmed. I removed myself from the circle of people I was friendly with but she just kept re-appearing in each phase of my life.

Now, three years later standing across the bar, there she was, being inappropriate with my friend’s boyfriend .. a friend I love, who is stunning inside out. Suddenly the lid blew off and all my emotions where running free. I was not going to sit in the passenger seat of my life. I told my media friend who was standing by me, immediately. What was I going to do?

I was not okay. I went to the toilet and guess who walked in next to me? Ms Evil! To my surprise I turned and looked the devil in the eye! I calmly suggested to her to find a man who was single. She was shocked and ready to attack as I walked away. I had said all there was to say. I was done.

Looking back I should have confronted the situation immediately as it happened and nipped it in the bud, instead of second-guessing myself. When I owned it and got my power back I saw things for what they where the culprit was the negative force who brought the drama around for her own benefit. I was no longer angry or confused. Just relieved to regain control of my life. What doesn’t break us makes us stronger.

I’m done with idiot compassion and refuse to ever put up with non-sense.

PART II -to be continued..

Check in with me daily I will be offering some my personal insight on love.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key.

Love

Jacquie Blaze

CONTACT : loveunraveled@gmail.com

BLAZE BLOGS: MY CHRONICLE TO LOVE: THE GREATEST LOVE AFFAIR.

In the past I’ve put others first, and at worst, even idolised men. That got me nowhere, and I was often in a state of grief and pain and had panic attack after panic attack. I decided to take a good hard look at where I was and where I wanted to be. I had to be honest about why I wasn't there yet, which helped me see how I could get there .. now I am on my way.

What held me back was social anxiety and struggle in my career, and allowing myself to be drained by problems that belonged to others. It was like being on the roundabout from hell and each time it got uncomfortable, which was most of the time, I kept reaching for a cigarette.

The friends I thought where nice were not all they seemed. They where totally self-absorbed and that was the looking glass that made me realise that if I really loved myself, which I wanted more than anything, I needed to be happy with me inside and out!

I've gone through this process with beauty, but how was I going to get happy when I didn't have anything I wanted in my life? I didn't have the relationship I wanted, in fact didn’t have anything I wanted for the past few years - a sacrifice I had made for my career. So was it even possible, given my career was still not really established?

I was grateful that I suddenly felt I wanted and deserved to be in “first class”. After all, it’s my own life we're talking about here. There are limited seats in first class. I was trying to fit in everyone - most of whom cared very little about me.

I got clarity on who deserved to be in my life. I am really very blessed and grateful for those people. I didn't feel lonely and half scared to death any more. The fighting had come to an end, finally. I didn't want hedonistic people in my life anymore .. those who were clearly just about themselves. First class was far more comfortable with only a few close friends who all genuinely cared about each other. Also, when you're in first class you can still wander to business class and economy. So when I let go, I actually didn't miss out on anything. Life just became more exciting and more peaceful and a lot more enjoyable. I got to see that at least one person was in love with me .. me.

Love starts with treating myself only with the very best. So, I was not going to harm my body with toxins of any kind. I gave up the feelings of stress and anxiety for making myself feel happy. I've now quit smoking and drinking, and I've quit allowing people to make me their personal assistant and social co-ordinator and am now in control of my own emotions. I quit thinking about men, period. I started really appreciating good men (because they're rare). I quit taking calls from the hedonistic people who I had no business being around. Instead, I started working out and giving to myself. I now have time to do the things which I enjoy, be it expressing myself in this blog, lunching with friends or helping those in need.

Now, I've given myself permission to be honest, not only with myself but with everybody around me. It is my world, and as the designer of my architectural masterpiece, I had every right to design my blueprint however I'd like.

Since, I've started the greatest love affair of all time .. I now know I am truly worthy of having the greatest love story ever.

Check in with me daily I will be offering some my personal insight on love.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key.

Love

Jacquie Blaze

CONTACT : loveunraveled@gmail.com

BLAZE BLOGS: LOVE NOT FEAR

I'm chicken. I get scared and it's bloody well time for me to get stronger and face the facts of life and take responsibility. After all, my specialisation is love and relationships, and love starts here with ourselves...myself. While it is love to stand up for yourself and raise your finger at the A**hole honking the horn behind you in traffic- the truth is he's honking because an angry dog always gets attacked - just like a scared dog attracts fear.

Can I tell you all something very personal? I've been under a lot of pressure lately. My career is at a stage where what I want is finally possible and I want it so bad that it's scary because at the back of my mind (although I know I deserve it) I don't know for sure what's going to happen. I didn't even realise that life's pressures had got to me until I found myself helpless and at the mercy of an alcohol fuelled anxiety binge. I'm grateful that I was with friends who made sure I got home safe.

Truth be told, I'm still just figuring it out for myself. Sometimes it's better to discuss fear and conquer truth to get to love, then to live in fear and attract circumstances which I don't want.

Check in with me daily I will be offering some my personal insight on love.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key.

Love

Jacquie Blaze

CONTACT : loveunraveled@gmail.com

"TO INDEPENDENCE !"

Several years ago I came to America ! It was on the 4th of July, America's Independence day and to a lesser point..mine.

What I've found since I've been here it's much like Americas fight for freedom. I have had to fight for my own. I moved here for a reason. The same reason so many people move here from all over the world..freedom. Freedom to be successful, to be unencumbered, to be without a ceiling..to be me!

Freedom is not a given, its something you have to fight for everyday- No matter if your a young melting pot country or a young lady form Australia.

I will fight on !

Check in with me daily I will be offering some my personal insight on love.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key to ALL life situations.

Love

Jacquie Blaze

I WILL ALSO BE DOING PERSONAL CONSULTATIONS

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SCANDAL #3 I WISH I HAD A BETTER GAYDAR !

(Disclaimer: Everything written is true, I didn't make any of this up. The names have been changed to protect the guilty.)

I wish I had a better Gaydar"! On a trip to Lebanon with a famous handsome actor Sir Thespian - I found myself enjoying his company very much and though he seemed pre-occupied- I summed it up to his massive creativity. It wasn't until later that I realized it was actually due to his massive hard on for our pilot - Phil. DAME !

Check in with me daily I will be offering interesting information.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at:(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key so DON'T be afraid to give love.

Love

Jacquie Blaze