Blaze: The Greatest Love of All

Whitney Houston was a strong, uniquely talented, beautiful woman who attracted some tragic circumstances in her life.  For all of her success, strength of character and wealth, she wasn’t looking after herself.  She needed to put herself first, love herself more, as so many loved her.   It’s hard to imagine that she felt at times intensely lonely and was in such pain, which she expressed in the lyrics of her songs, but that was also what helped us identify with her and appreciate her passion and honesty.  She found the inner strength to generously pour out her heart and soul.  She gave so much of herself that she forgot to give to her self, which is where love starts.  Yes, she could have done things differently, however she did things the way that she did - that's destiny .. that was her path.  She is very much missed. 


Let this be a lesson to all those whom have ever struggled with any life situation- love is key.
This song says it all: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYzlVDlE72w&ob=av3n
Please take the time to watch my trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U
Its helped me learn that the greatest love of all is easy to achieve- that learning to love myself is the greatest love if all!

BLAZE BLOGS: MY CHRONICLE TO LOVE: Breaking up to Make up!

   Dr Bonnie Eaker Weil explains what I will call "Breaking up is a good way to re-negotiate and re-seduce your partner!" in her book entitled "Make Up, Don't Break Up", which depicts Dr Bonnie's journey from early childhood through to how she's survived being a family and marriage therapist, and a period of 20 years being single between her first and second marriage - she finally worked it out for her patients. 

The premise of the book discusses her wisdom acquired through hard work and heart ache.  After reading her book and interviewing her I now consider this lesson to be one of the most important tools in love and life.  Make Up, Don't Break Up teaches us vital and necessary skills to sail through love’s struggles. She explains that we all go through separation anxiety and the process of reconnection.  She has decades of experience behind her and shares with simplicity, in a way that I finally got .. one thing to master in life is love and in any love relationship - one thing is for sure and can’t be avoided, and that’s fighting.  We all do it at some stage and in her interview she teaches us how to fight fairly.

I've read a lot of books and none explain so clearly as Dr Bonnie does - the "dance" between a male and female, that is the pursuer and distancer, and that falling in love happens while we're away from the relationship. In other words, distance makes the heart grow fonder. Hence breaking up is a sure-fire method of re-seduction and you could almost say is necessary.

I've found her work to be a life changing experience and her latest 2nd edition comes with an added video guide to her specialised tools.  I personally could relate to her struggles of being hurt and overcoming infidelity. She cleverly made me realize that under all of that - there is love!

Love is work and can be challenging, especially in today's society with people taking a lot longer to find love. Her work helps us avoid the path less travelled. She's done all the work for us and I feel it’s classic in its inspiration to anyone looking to fall in love. Everyone should acquire her tools.

I'm happy to say that if more people read this book we would have so many more successful relationships and a better world.

It doesn't amaze me anymore that I'm 33 and single. My education didn't include teaching me any skills to navigate my own heart and love is the only thing which is real. Understanding that breaking up to make up is a sure way to avoiding hurt, which can lead to health issues and problems. You want love? .. as she so kindly puts it .. "I did it, and so can you."

Her book explains what a life of experience can teach us.  This is definitely a classic, which I believe goes beyond the philosopher Eric Fromm’s book, and teaches us how to cope with getting to true love.

She's so worth listening to - I interviewed Dr Bonnie Eaker Weil on her book and her personal love story and on developing tools to navigate love by dissolving rules that society imposes on us.  Her book has helped me, and I'm so grateful I'd like to offer a FREE pre-release special to my fans.  If you'd like to watch her interview, please EMAIL your request to:

       ASK BLAZE? at: loveunraveled@gmail.com

Love Unraveled

Creating my DVD series Love Unraveled changed my life profoundly. Before I made Love Unraveled, I mistakenly thought I had to find love (Him) in order to experience love. Quite the opposite: I had to experience, find and feel love within-- in order for all areas of my life to improve. What I learned from world- renowned experts whom I interviewed in Love Unraveled was that we all crave that heady carnival ride of new love where we can’t think straight. What a rush! However, when the newness wears off, we either move on to another relationship to recapture that high again, or blame our partner for not giving us that “loving feeling” anymore.

I now know that real love begins from a place deep within each of us. When we open our hearts to express love in all forms, every day improves. Our careers improve, our relationships get better, and personally for me, men are noticing me in a different way. As women, we all want to be noticed and admired by men. Of course I love turning heads. But what I really yearned for was for men to care about my inner being—not just my outside package. Most of us are clueless about how to make that happen. Sure we know how to dress in a way that gets a man to do a double take. But in our hearts, we want more out of our encounters, relationships and even friendships. Now, after making Love Unraveled, my open heart and self- confidence is attracting the kind of men I want by my side. It might sound like magic, but after you see Love Unraveled, the mysteries of love will be revealed and you will become effective in finding your heart’s desires.

Check in with me every week, and I will offer some of the amazing tips I learned from interviewing Dr. John DeMartini, Dr. Pat Allen, Robert Greene and Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil.

In the meantime, check out my Love Unraveled Trailer at:(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0UeyuKNh-U)

Until next time remember that Love is the Key,

Love,

Jacquie Blaze